Knowing Me: Doxa Mensah

My Journey: Where Motherhood, Career, and Compassion Intersect

Hello, and welcome! I’m so glad you’re here. My name is Doxa Mensah! For years, I’ve dedicated my professional life to empowering individuals in their careers, helping them navigate challenges, unlock potential, and build thriving work environments. But as you’ll discover on these pages, my life is a rich tapestry woven with much more than just professional milestones. It’s a journey that has profoundly shaped who I am, not only as a seasoned Human Resources leader and a certified life and career coach, but also as a wife, a mother, and a woman deeply committed to faith, family, and financial well-being.

My path to motherhood, in particular, has been a masterclass in trusting intuition, adapting to the unexpected, and embracing the profound wisdom that comes from lived experience. It’s a story that spans more than a decade, marked by two vastly different pregnancies that taught me invaluable lessons about advocacy, resilience, and the sheer power of listening to your inner voice.

The Two Sides of Motherhood: A Tale of Two Pregnancies

My first child arrived in 2012, marking the beginning of my motherhood journey. That pregnancy was, by all accounts, a "textbook" experience. Smooth, uncomplicated, and seemingly effortless, it set a certain expectation for what pregnancy "should" be. I was younger then, and perhaps a bit more naive about the intricate dance between a woman's body and the new life growing within. This initial ease, while a blessing, also served as a stark contrast to what awaited me over 11 years later, when my second son arrived in 2024.

Fast forward to my second pregnancy. Now over the age of 30, the landscape of my body, my understanding, and my priorities had shifted. What began as an exciting new chapter quickly introduced unexpected challenges. Around the fourth month, I started noticing subtle yet persistent signs of high blood pressure. I vividly remember bringing my concerns to my doctor at the time, armed with a reading of 149/86. His response – a dismissive "it wasn’t a big deal" – immediately triggered a profound sense of unease within me.

That moment was a turning point. Something deep inside, a quiet but firm voice, told me, "This isn't right." It was an instinct that transcended medical textbooks and professional reassurance. Mom, ALWAYS trust your gut! This unwavering belief in my intuition turned out to be the single most important decision of my pregnancy journey. I sought a second opinion, and that’s when everything truly changed.

And now, as I write this, I am thrilled to share that my journey continues! I am currently 15 weeks pregnant with our baby girl, a new chapter that brings its own unique set of joys and continued lessons. My experiences with high blood pressure in my previous pregnancy have undoubtedly shaped how I approach this one, with an even greater emphasis on mindful living, careful monitoring, and, of course, that ever-present trust in my own intuition.

Beyond Motherhood: A Career Dedicated to Empowerment

While my recent experiences in motherhood have profoundly shaped my perspective, my professional life has long been dedicated to empowering individuals to thrive. For over 16 years, I’ve built a robust career as a Human Resources leader, delving into key areas like employee relations, performance management, policy development, career coaching, and team development. My passion lies in understanding what truly motivates people, what helps them grow, and how to cultivate environments where everyone feels valued and can excel.

As a certified life and career coach, I’ve had the privilege of providing tailored coaching and professional development strategies that truly empower individuals. My aim is to help people navigate their careers with confidence, equipping them with the tools and insights to overcome obstacles and seize opportunities. I believe strongly in creating high-performing workplace cultures where engagement and productivity flourish, and where every employee feels supported, understood, and truly equipped to grow

The Foundations of My Life: Faith, Family, and Finances

Beyond my professional endeavors and my journey through motherhood, the core of who I am is built upon strong foundations: faith, family, and finances. These pillars guide my decisions, shape my values, and provide the deep wellspring of motivation that drives me forward.

My faith is my compass, providing direction and strength through life’s inevitable challenges and celebrating its countless blessings. It’s a source of peace and resilience that has been particularly crucial during the more demanding phases of my journey.

My family is my heart. As a wife, and a mother to two amazing boys – a spirited 12-year-old and a delightful 22-month-old, soon to be joined by our baby girl – my home is filled with laughter, learning, and endless love. They are my greatest teachers and my strongest motivators.

And finally, family finances are a passion of mine. Understanding how to manage resources, plan for the future, and build a secure foundation for my loved ones is something I deeply value and actively work towards. It's about more than just numbers; it's about creating freedom and opportunity.

Through this blog, I invite you to join me on this multi-faceted journey. We’ll explore topics that span career development and effective communication, mindful parenting, nurturing family relationships, practical financial strategies, and of course, the unique nuances of managing health through pregnancy and beyond. My goal is to share insights and tools that empower you, just as I’ve strived to empower individuals throughout my HR career. Welcome to a space where compassion meets strategy, and where every experience, big or small, contributes to a richer, more fulfilling life. I’m so glad you’re here.